Lessons from Granddad - Finding My Strengths

My grandfather used to tell me that everyone has their own unique gift. Everyone had something that they did better than anyone else; a strength that set them apart from the pack. He said that it was the responsibility of every individual to find out what their strengths are, cultivate those skills, and use them to give back to society; to leave this world a better place than they found it. He believed in everyone that way... He taught me that if you work hard enough, you can move mountains.

He saw in me a potential for greatness: a sense of empathy unmatched by the understanding of others, a compassionate intuition. He saw my endless search for art and beauty in the world, my quest for truth and justice in all matters. He saw my determination, my sense of right and wrong, my desire to make others happy. From him I learned to look within myself and find these strengths, to use them everyday and change the world in what little way that only I can.

I pride myself on my ability to write with conviction and eloquence, whether it is for myself or for some profound purpose. I can adapt my style to what is appropriate; what, when you hear it, sounds right, even if it means agonizing for hours over whether to use 'an' or 'the'.

Questions, research, and failed attempts aside, if I start something, I know that I can finish it. I enjoy the stress of deadlines because it motivates me to be productive, to work quickly and challenge myself to accomplish something I may have doubted I would be able to do. I like to surprise myself.

Some people try to say that being a perfectionist is a weakness, but to me it means I know that I always give my very best and will not settle for anything less.

I'm not afraid to ask questions or admit when I am wrong. I think it shows that I am in it for the truth, not for the sake of my ego or my pride. I can be wrong a million times as long as I learn a million things from it.

My grandfather taught me so much about life, and finding what's important, and doing what you can to help others along the way. He taught me that life isn't easy, and it isn't always fair, but when you push back, you can accomplish things you never thought possible.

The last thing my granddad taught me was that I can do anything if I try hard enough. He showed me that I am stronger than I thought I was, and that no matter the circumstances that surround my life, the worries that plague my mind, the unbearable weight that life can force down on me, I am capable of anything that I set my mind to. He made me feel invincible, like I'm ready to take on the world.

So bring it on, World. I'm ready...